Using language for leverage
Moving beyond old-school male domination and the Sensitive New Age Guy (SNAG)…
I thought a lot about Gladys’s comment, secretly hoping I could avoid dying from…
What helped is that I finally found a purpose for this sometimes-excruciating fe…
Recognize that the deficit often comes from an inability to receive.
A weeklong retreat beyond words and even snuggling.
“What do we do next?” is the last question to ask
Appreciating the sexual feelings in our everyday lives
…And recognize the real struggle with your partner is to hear
Maybe it’s time to unleash what it really feels like to care.
In my practice, I’m witnessing a revitalized version of the Queen archetype reemerging
If your mind cringes or your belly flip-flops while you read this, you’re not alone.
Learn how to recognize your Hero, Victim, and Villain.
How to break free from this perpetual drama
The story of how you met reveals the future of your relationship.
A clear answer—even the answer you want—is just a few words away
Understanding your partner’s desires for touch is a key to restoring intimacy
Space is not just a physical phenomenon, it is an atmosphere that includes nonjudgmental attention, mutual respect, and appreciation.
As a kid, my hands and feet were a source of quiet shame for me. I was born with…
SCENE ONE: My partner and I are in the car on a road trip, having a glorious tim…